People are often offended by my everyday conclusions

If I see a grave that days someone was 99 years when they die, or died December 31, I have learned not to say allowed said person is a lazy quitter, should of tried harder to make it to round it all off.

Same for when I walk through a graveyard and see all these men and women married together, then see a grave of a man who died in the 1930s, and the wife column only has a birthday.... WTF? Who is she buried with? Probably a few other graves about with a blank spot reservee for this wife.

It's fine if I'm thinking it, not horrible, but people react like I am a horrible monster for saying it. Who exactly am I offending?

Just a observation.