Gold filled vs pvd

Hi there! I just was wondering about gold filled vs PVD - which is better? I assume gold filled as personally it’s worked well for years without tarnish for me but I’ve been seeing PVD pop up more and more when shopping for jewelry.

I wear my jewelry all the time and I never really take it off for anything. It’s very important to me that my jewelry lasts… of course buying solid gold is better but gold filled is all I can really afford at the moment lol.

Oh and also I’ve been told wearing pure gold is actually not great for everyday since it’s so soft, is that so?

Anyways, thanks so much in advance. :) <3